举止合「仪」？
To some extent, each of us in life, always attend some grand occasion, than such as: weddings, graduation or awards ceremony, and so on. Do you have attended because it was late and was upset banquet? Or you can talk with some people more than ten minutes still figure out who they are? Or received a gift does not like to let you know what to do? In those cases above, we can refer to use some manners or courtesy to respond.
Etiquette expert Miss Han An example □ Some people attend the grand occasion common mistake, for your reference :
Did not answer specifically noted “Please reply confirmation (RSVP)” invitation. Let invitees know whether or not you attend is full of good intentions move. Order takeaway food if the owner uses the way, they will count the head, otherwise it will spend a lot of money wasted. So people should be grateful to be invited at the same time, politely tell them whether you will attend. Remember, no one can , “ we try to , “ so to say □ to determine whether you will attend.
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Allowed to arrive. We all know that when the ceremony or ritual in progress, someone standing in the aisle looking for a seat is so unpleasant thing. It highlights the latecomers for invitees and other attendees ignored.
Not depress the voice conversation. Again, this show a disregard. In the program underway when talking with people, is like whispered , “ I do not look at this program , “ it will make others suffer disturbed and distracted.
To meet people not previously familiar with the background. In fact, you can take in advance to meet people familiar with the background and learned how to open the topic at the meet. After attending should meet on the road to tell his family’s name, relationship and other important information, such as “how she has been married and how they” friends, “his grandfather had just passed away last month,” friends, and so on. This will help your family or guests to cross one off Hom (at least not stuck in the thinking, “Who is this?” On), so they like to go to a friend or acquaintance of the family □, rather than to a stranger place.
Do not talk to strangers people. Every party should be treated as an opportunity to meet new friends, should behave the same as the owner. Or you have some experience too new to the occasion, you neither know anyone, and no one to talk to you. While we strive to have the responsibility to make friends, but if we have to help us integrate into the surrounding atmosphere, people are not better it?
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Gifts and gifts
Ready or not. □ Do not receive a gift on their own should be immediately reported to a □, maybe there will be another opportunity for you in return. Do not confused like “Oh, because □ a gift you gave me, so I send you a □.” Nobody hope so. On the other hand, during the holidays, you can always come up with some on hand ready to give as a gift, which is always a good habit of being prepared. Prepare a drawer full price when buying a gift, any time you can go out.
Receive a gift. Should open the gift received in private occasions, a lot of people in front of their face taboo others open to send out a gift.
Packaging. Especially in big occasions □, in gift packaging shows thoughtful, considerate and intentions are always good.
□ Xie card. No matter how you look at a piece of the gift, always remember to thank the giver of good and bother, and shall promptly □ thank! Make a list of gifts received, write down something someone sent. The same time to prepare envelopes, stamps and return address (stickers) and so on. □ card can be the beginning: “You really care / very thoughtful …” and mention special gift, not to mention that such a “thank you” words of thank you card, because it is in fact □ □ Xie card.
Dinner
Take hold utensils should be like a pencil (except eat buffet)
If there is a large lettuce salad greens want to cut with a knife
To breaking one, two loaves of bread and butter at the same time □ Never □ as for bread, use a napkin like a hamburger erase the stain on the lips
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Do not waving a knife and fork to talk with people
Introducing himself, not the volume greater than the VIPs
Etiquette is the ethical basis. On people showing gratitude, enthusiasm and welcome is the focus of these rituals. From the bottom of genuine respect others is essential. But do not be too pursuit of etiquette, the most important thing is to enjoy yourself.
~ Miss Han An ( Ann C. Humphries ) CPCM , is ETICON, Inc ( Etiquette consultants for your Business ), President, and Proud To Be Polite founder of educational programs. Her contact information is: PO Box 69530, Columbia, SC 29229 USA Phone:. 803-736-1934 / Fax: 803-736-0673
