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与愁苦的朋友同行Grief Alongside

在每一个人过去的岁月中,都会多多少少有过悲伤的经历,诸如亲友遭到变故,生意失败,工作停顿,婚姻触礁,恋爱出现问题,或者学业不顺利等等的苦雨凄风经历。虽然这些都是大家都能感同身受的经验,但是每一个人的悲痛伤心难过的原因,受到伤害的程度,还有如何去面对这样的问题却是因人而异。甚至于面对同一类的伤害,每一个人都可能有她自己独特的正面的或者负面的应变经历。所以,当有人遭遇悲伤事情发生的时候,我们又如何去帮助她去面对悲伤的事实,让她能够坚强走过这一段艰苦的岁月? 惊慌与拒绝接受常常是最先遇到的反应 在事情发生的时候,一般常人最先的反应就是惊慌与抗拒,或者无法去接受事情发生的事实。这样的反应倒是人之... >Full Story

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爱的肢体语言 Love Body Language

By 作者:柯玛莉; 译者:范文□ 用动作说话比用言语说话还管用 用身体动作来表达自己是一个容易亲近、容易相处的人,也同时证明自己对他们所说的事是感兴趣的。如果你希望让对方感受到你的轻松、自在、坦率,以及想和他们打成一片的心意,那么,用身体语言向他们「致敬」吧!所谓致敬就是「献出诚意」的意思,「献出诚意」就是要你「用一种期盼对方能回应的表情来传达自己的心意」。 面带微笑 微笑能表现出自己的坦率,是最重要的表达方式。如果你忽略了要微笑,其他人会觉得你很冷漠 、和他们很疏远... >Read More



暑假DIY-花裙子 Summer DIY

By 濮树 穿上暑假第一件手工作品,迫不及待去人最多的地方秀一秀。现在的旅行已不像从前,哪怕你去到索马里,也都是一场消费。即是消费就到哪儿都一样。所以,出於安全和卫生的考量,旅行时我比较赞成不删减住宿的花费,万一投宿在“黑色大丽花”的酒店就……可是,酒店里一应俱全的设施和无处不在的广告又把自己笼罩在一个消费的状态,使人不由自主产生一种生命短暂丶时间紧迫丶努力工作的感觉,就连早上喝咖啡的空档,一本本美不胜收的杂志也在争夺时间。也难怪继旅游团一团团出... >Read More



最好的朋友Best Friend

译者:吴怡静 知己如珍宝 「最好的朋友」对很多人来说像是一个幼稚的名词。它很容易使人联想到两小无猜的女孩在玩耍时的小争执,但对我来说却是打从心底里的一份亲切。 1994年,我在包老师的幼稚园认识约瑟琳女士。那时她才五岁,我只有四岁,我们经常在一起做劳作,或在沙池中玩耍,所以很快地我们就成为朋友。记不得是谁先向对方打招呼,或是先请对方分享自己的小点心之类的,总之,我们很喜欢玩在一起,渐渐地,我们变成了形影不离的好朋友。 上了一年级,我们的导师倒是有点担心我们这样的友谊是不... >Read More



在异国交新朋友 Find Friends

By 译者□清风 丝坦芬妮花了许多年的时间才使自己融入这个社会。上小学的时候老师因为她提问过多而责备她□同学们也避开她。 上高中时她才和众人有了交流。忽然之间她有了四个要好的朋友,她开始受到众人的接纳欢迎,和朋友一同享受快乐时光,并一同梦想成功的未来。 当她全家从阿联酋移民到加拿大的时候,丝坦芬妮渴望经历西方世界的生活并成为其中的一员。让她为难的是要结交新朋友。 天性害羞的她难以和任何人接近,但是在她大学二年级的时候, 丝坦芬妮决定改变一下。因为她家在印度有基督教的传统... >Read More



好友如镜 Good Friends As Mirrors

為什麽我们总是喜欢跟某些人聚在一起,远超过其他的人?是什麽使得我们维系?有些友情甚至可以持续一生之久。能与那些真正相关心你的人保持联络其实是一种恩典,我们大家却时常把它当成是理所当然的。 与朋友在一起让我们感觉愉快 有些人让我们开怀,有些人懂得我们的心,还有一些人在困难的情形下支持我们,更有一些人总在我们情绪低落、有需要的时候环绕在我们身旁。 真正的朋友是一面映照自己的镜子 真正的朋友让人在软弱的时候看到自己的力量;当人贬低自己时,朋友可以指出他所具有的好品德,比如胆量... >Read More



永遠的朋友 Safe Friends

我相信在人生的旅途里,我们会有丰富我们的生活的朋友,他们会长长远远地深藏在我们记忆里。 我要和大家分享一种特别的朋友,我把他称之为一位「让你高枕无忧的朋友」,这种朋友接受你,只是因为你是你,没有任何理由和条件的,他们不但和你分享你心中的秘密,而且还不会泄漏出去。 上帝把女人造的就是喜欢和人亲近,所以女人就爱与人分享,糟糕的是我们常找错分享的对象,有时候我们甚至会误用祷告的名义,糊里糊涂把秘密说出来传出去了;以我个人的经验来说,每当我有困难时,就是我要考验哪些是「让我高枕... >Read More



单身贵族的挑战 Singleness

By 译者: 方周 请相信我,我知道单身是怎么一回事。刚开始的时候,我的朋友和我都为单身的难处悲叹,且始终以为这一切不过是短暂的。后来随著年岁日增,我也变得有些老了。一次有位单身女人以无法置信的口气问我:「这么多年来,作为一个单身女子的你是怎么熬过来的?」虽然很难界定一个人什么时候才正式成□单身,但是不管那是什么年龄,单身的人都有一些相同的特征。 一个单身女人的特征: 单身必须自立。没有人帮你倒垃圾,没有帮你换灯泡,单身必须自己动手,才能样样都有。 单身是自由的。她们想... >Read More


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