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By 译者:小瓦 问:我工作的地方都是一个个隔起来的小空间。有一次我无意中听到一个同事说我既邋遢又爱撒谎。我是担心其他人听了也这么说我,因此我正著手写信给人事部的主管。你有什么建议吗? 答:遇到这种情况,任谁都会火冒三丈,感觉颜面无光、信誉受损。不知道你有没有当面告诉这位背后说你坏话的同事,跟她说其实你听到她的话了,而且觉得受了侮辱。你可以问问她:你做过什么得罪她的事情,让她这么看你 ? 我希望你还是先跟这位同事谈谈,然后再写信。一般说来,人事部主管会问你有没有先跟那个人谈过;如果你回答:「有」,再谈谈讲话的经过,效果会比较好。这种先试著私底下和同事解决彼此间的矛盾的态度,也会得到人事部... >Full Story

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By 译者:小瓦 问:我无意中撞见与我共事的朋友正在与另一个已婚男同事接吻。我那个朋友原来一直说她永远不会跟已婚男人来往,因为她已离婚,应该知道被丈夫欺骗的妻子心里是什么滋味。我跟这两个人一起工作实在很不舒服,但我又没做错什么。 答:听起来你是觉得被蒙骗了。既然他们两人一起辜负别人、欺骗别人,那么我想你对他们所持的谨慎态度也是很自然的。他们并不可靠,还是保持一段距离为妙!毕竟他们的价值标准也与你不同,不要把机密的事情托给他们,还有,他们不忠诚是他们自己的事情,与你无关,... >Read More


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