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By 心桥 青少年为什么不像以前那样容易交流? 青春期没有明显叛逆表现的孩子有,占少数。大多数孩子在十岁后言行有较明显变化。主要原因有以下三个方面。 1.生理原因 国家精神健康研究院总结: 大脑成熟的顺序从后向前, 是脑神经被髓鞘包裹的过程。神经只有被髓鞘包裹好后它的信号才能最快地传导到目的地。青少年时期记忆力、阅读理解、数学分析、运动等功能逐渐达到顶峰,但与其它的脑叶相比,大脑的额叶(frontal lobe) 最不成熟、信号传导性能最差,要到25岁左右才能完全发育成熟。而额叶却总管对危险和冒险的判断能力、控制冲动、计划和选择自己的行为,是大脑的总指挥。这是很多青少年情绪化、易怒、冲动... >Full Story

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青少年成长面临的挑战 Teen Challenges

by 心橋 2000年我刚开始在加州公立校区工作时很兴奋,以为自己找到了预测孩子未来成功的捷径,那就是智商测验。只要一个半小时,我就可以测出孩子认知能力的强项与弱项,画出漂亮的曲线图。我曾认为这是预测孩子未来成功的方法,因为从统计学上来讲,智商和学校成绩显著正相关。一年后我就发现不对,因为很多孩子智商测验测不出问题,但是他们的行为表现、学习效果和智商分数不相符。 什么因素会影响孩子的学习和成长呢? 不怕您说我是“种族歧视”,这20年来服务于各种族裔,我发现没有任何其他族... >Read More



孩子离家后 Family Dynamics

By 译者 艺默 从高中到大学的转变不单只是影响到孩子,也影响到父母和兄弟姐妹。格兰尼的两个女儿康妮和惠妮都去上大学的时候,她和她的丈夫爱得华博士感觉家变得出奇的安静「我们家几天都听不到电话铃声;买食品的开销减了一半,冰箱裡的食物也坏掉了!」 另一对夫妇菲尔和珍在他们的女儿何莉去上大学以后,也发现他们失去了一个好帮手。「要让每个人及时各就各位真不容易啊!」珍解释说。 何莉离开家去上大学让她的父母很不适应,弟妹们也面临著这种改变。何莉和她的妹妹敏反而因分离变得更亲密。她的... >Read More



揭开青少年卓越的奥秘Excellent Kids

全世界职场环境变化急遽,未来四年将有三分之一的技能将全面「自动化」,谷歌是创新能力的代表。「硬知识」可能不管用, 团队合作丶同理心丶沟通能力丶创新能力等无法被人工智慧取代的软实力,才是孩子应该培养的关键能力。孩子的好品格高情商对学习丶人际关系,以及未来工作成就都有着关键影响。优秀不是一次的行动,而是一种习惯。父母愿意学习和改变,孩子有无限的潜力! 现代父母都有某种程度的焦虑,所以我们其实是不同类型和级别的“直升机父母”或“割草机父”,但是,持续监控丶为孩子制定过多计划丶... >Read More



青少年的反叛期 Teen Rebellion

By 译者:文山 最近有一则警世的故事,成了全加拿大的头条新闻。 雪伦是位聪慧可人的少女,生长于一个虔诚的基督教家庭,在快要以全A成绩从高中毕业的前夕,竟然和男友结伴逃跑了。此男孩非比寻常,让我透露些资料给你听听,他乃是个被警方通缉的年轻男子,罪名是卖淫和对孩童性骚扰。由于该名少女离家出走纯属自愿,因此这对青年人得以逃躲女方的父母、教会和警察的搜寻有将近两周之久,最后才无可奈何地把自己交出来。 这故事可真会让每个父母寒彻心霏。到底是什么原因会让一个纯洁、看起来家世良好的... >Read More



爱与管教-6A原则 Raising Kids in Love

心理医生威廉 ·格拉斯( Dr. William Glasser )说:「负责任的父母会恰当地结合爱与管教来教育他们的孩子。……在人的一生中,孩子尤其是幼年时期,若不能得到亲人的关怀、爱与管教,他就永远学不到责任感,从此也就一生受害。」神付予作父母一个重要的职分,父母有责任也有权柄来教养孩子。但我们、、管教孩子不是出于父母的喜好,而是根据神的原则。作父母的的任务是根据孩子不同的恩赐性格,在有限的十八年中,让他们的智能身量都成熟发展,教养他们成为神喜悦、人喜悦的年青人;但... >Read More



兒童性教育 Kids Sex Education

我第一次听到有关性的话题是在四年级的时候。就我而言,那是历史上的一个转折点(1969年10月16日,应该是个星期三),那日以前性对于我是不存在的。在那颇值得纪念的日子,邻家的一个男孩,我们可以称他为包比,因□这是他的名字,告诉了我所有关于性的事情。回想起来,包比对整个事情的了解是相当困窘难堪的,我相信他是被教导成那个样子的,这也是□什麽他直到如今,特别拥有在这方面的辅导使命。 回想起来,我觉得自己也该从其它地方性之存在的,因為一直以来是有其它線索的,例如同一年的早些时候... >Read More



青少年的金钱管理 Teens Money Management

By 作者:邝玉娜, 译者:佚名 你也许知道应该和你十几岁的孩子谈论钱的问题,但是不知道从何开始。这里有十个有关管理金钱方面的问题,建议你和你的青少年孩子谈论。 如何作预算。帮助你的孩子作一个简单的预算帐本,记录收入和支出,以便他们查看钱都会花在什么地方,以及可以省下多少钱。 如何省钱以应将来之需。和你的孩子谈论短期和长期目标。比如,是要电脑游戏和衣服呢,还是要一部车子和大学的学费。如果总是省不下钱,就要细看预算帐本里哪些项目还可以再节支。 如何存钱和投资。因为货币贬... >Read More


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